Friday, December 2, 2016

Birth Story

After finding out that we were expecting twins, I set a goal of reaching 36 weeks.  I was concerned that if the boys arrived earlier, they would have health concerns and need to spend time in the NICU.  Once the three of us got to 36 weeks, I was very excited/proud and ready to stop being pregnant.  At the end of my 36th week I started having complications like high blood pressure, protein in my urine and severe swelling of my feet/legs.  All of these together are signs of preeclampsia.  The doctor increased the amount of monitoring for the boys but ultimately it was decided that we needed to induce due to increased risks of still birth for Isaac and life threatening complications for me.  I went to the hospital at 36 weeks and 6 days for induction.  Both boys were born via c-section the following day at 37 weeks.  There were complications during recovery for me but both Max and Isaac did great!

Last Belly picture!!! 36 weeks and 6 days.

                 

***Below is a detailed description of the birth of Maxwell and Isaac.  Stop here and only look at the pictures if you don't want to know all the details!

Isaac on the left and Max on the right
(All pictures are when they were 2 days old)


I went in for a doctor appointment on 10/27 where they found high blood pressure and low levels of protein in my urine. The doctor was concerned because these are signs of pre-eclampsia.  She gave me two options: go home and monitor urine protein overnight or be induced.  I decided to monitor overnight thinking the longer the boys incubated the healthier they would be.  We scheduled a recheck for the following day.  The three of us did very well overnight (or as well as you can at 36 weeks pregnant with twins).
Maxwell John
 I had Chris stay home from work on 10/28 to go to the doctor with me so we could make decisions together.  Again the doctor found too much protein in my urine and strongly recommended induction.  Isaac also had a non responsive stress test (meaning he was less active than they would like) so that made our decision very easy... it was time for induction.
Isaac James

Chris and I drove to the hospital (ok ok so we stopped for sandwiches because as soon as a pregnant women checks into the hospital for delivery they will only let her eat clear broth or jello) and got checked in.  Eventually (hospital time is different than real world time), an IV catheter was placed and pitocin was started to help make the contractions stronger.  It turns out that I was having contractions without realizing it.
Max (he likes getting his picture taken...Isaac not so much)
The pitocin increased the frequency of the contraction (as noted on the monitoring equipment) but I still was unable to feel the contractions.  The attending doctor arrived to check my dilation.  He said if I was more than 8 cm dilated he would give birth to the babies for me :) I was 6.5 cm dilated...so close.  The doctor informed me that I wasn't feeling the contractions because my uterus was so stretched from carrying twins that it couldn't really contract.  He said if he broke the bag of waters for Max, that would allow my uterus to tighten enough that it could begin to contract.

This lead to two important discoveries:
 First of all who knew that there was THAT much fluid around each baby-holy moly was I surprised. Second: the contractions when your water is broken start with a BANG!!!  The best comparison that I have thought of is that I was standing near the pool watching people swim and someone knocked me into the deep end where I was suddenly drowning.

 The contractions lasted approximately 45 seconds about 20-30 seconds apart.  It was excruciating because there was no gradual build up.  It was just--bam--here is a lot of pain.  I was able to handle the contractions for about an hour before I requested an epidural.  The anesthesiologist was my favorite person in that moment.  Just an FYI: no one tells you that you will continue to have contractions while a doctor is placing a needle in your spine and you cannot move.
I love this one Max (left) has his Are-you-sure-you-know-what-you-are-doing look and Isaac is screaming. This pretty much sums up my life right now :)
The epidural worked great and I was thrilled.  The nurses let me nap for a little while and continued to monitor the babies and my contractions.  About an hour later, they woke me up saying that Maxwell's heart rate would drop with each contraction but immediately returned to normal.  We tried changing position but he continued to have drops to his heart rate. Luckily upon recheck, I was 10 cm dilated and ready to start pushing.  With twins most hospitals require you to deliver in an OR in case surgery is needed.  So we took a trip to the OR where I began pushing with the contractions.  I pushed every 1-2 minutes for an hour, but Max refused to budge.  The doctor said that after an hour of no movement the chances of getting him to move were greatly reduced. Since both Max and Isaac were doing so well, I decided to try for another 30 minutes...still no movement.  At that time the doctor recommended a Cesarian section.  I agreed because after pushing for an hour and a half I was pretty tired and would have to push out two babies (also Isaac was breech and needed to be manipulated and that birth could still result in a C section).  The anesthesiologist added more drugs to the epidural and the doctor performed the C section.
Our first picture as a family of 6!
(4 of the human kind and two of the canine kind)

Maxwell John Beesley was born at 1:21 am on October 29th, 2016 weighing 6 pounds and 12 ounces.  Isaac James Beesley was born at 1:22 am on October 29th, 2016 weighing in at 5 pounds and 11 ounces.


I had a fair number of post operational complications, such as hemorrhaging--leading to the need for a blood transfusion, anemia that lasted for a month, severe pain episodes, the development of gallstones--leading to a future surgery (more on that later), and severe constipation.

We stayed in the hospital until November 1, 2016 allowing time for the blood transfusion and enough healing so that I could help Chris once we got home.

Isaac and Me
Max and Chris





















It is so funny that even with all the complications and issues I have faced with the last month of pregnancy and the first month of their lives, I would do it all again in a heart beat in order to have these two in my life.






Monday, November 28, 2016

Week 36 + Nursery Pictures

How far along? 36 weeks

Materiny clothes? Yes!!!!

Stretch marks? Heck yes...twins.

Sleep? Not so much.  It sucks to have to pee every 2 hours.  

Trying the moby wrap! Too bad the dogs are so big...


Best moment this week? We finally finished the nursery!!  We are just so excited to meet you boys.  

Have you told Family and Friends? The family all has their trips out planned!


Movement? All the time especially at work 

Food cravings? Pickles

Anything making you sick? Nope

Have you started to show yet? Huge!

Gender prediction? Twin boys. Most likely fraternal

Labor Signs? None so far


Belly Button in or out? In and staying so far







how it all started!


Wedding rings on or off? Separated my wedding ring from my engagement ring.  The Engagement ring still fits!




Happy or Moody most of the time? Your poor father is dealing with a  crabby wife. 


Weekly Wisdom? The whole pregnancy will go by in a blink of the eye except the last month...that lasts 3 years.












Tuesday, October 25, 2016

Week 31

This week we took maternity photos.  It was soooo much fun!  We are slowly but surely getting ready for you boys!




How far along? 31 weeks

Materiny clothes? Yes!!!!

Stretch marks? Still minor stretch marks. Using lotion as often as I can to try to prevent them.

Sleep? Sleeping less and less just due to comfort. 


Best moment this week? Maternity pics with your furry siblings.  

Have you told Family and Friends? Your family cannot wait to meet you. Everyone is planning their trips out. 


Movement? I finally felt hiccups today!!!!!

Food cravings? I want salty followed by M&Ms...

Anything making you sick? Nope

Have you started to show yet? I look like I swallowed a basket ball....

Gender prediction? Twin boys. Most likely fraternal

Labor Signs? None so far


Belly Button in or out? In and staying so far






Wedding rings on or off? On but getting tighter


Happy or Moody most of the time? Your poor father is dealing with a  crabby wife. 



Weekly Wisdom? "Wow look how big you are!" stopped being a compliment at age 10.  














Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Week 27 update

Your dad and I took a trip for our anniversary and my birthday this week.  You boys enjoyed the trip or at least enjoyed bouncing around each night.  We visited Crater Lake, the Redwoods and Northern California.   It was a lot of fun!




How far along? 27 weeks!


Materiny clothes? Yes

Stretch marks? Still minor stretch marks. Using lotion as often as I can to try to prevent them.

Sleep? Still having trouble getting comfortable.  Getting some aches and pains.  


Best moment this week? Crater Lake!!

Not sure about the weird shadowing here...
Have you told Family and Friends? Your family cannot wait to meet you. Everyone is planning their trips out. 


Movement? Perpetually.  You two loved our trip!

Food cravings? No big cravings.  I still love pickles

Anything making you sick? Nope

Have you started to show yet? Very big!!

Gender prediction? We can't wait to meet you boys!


Labor Signs? None so far


Belly Button in or out? In.
 I'm hoping that it will stay that way


Wedding rings on or off? On and fits great!


Happy or Moody most of the time? Getting crabby from being tired all the time




Weekly Wisdom?When the sign says .75 mile easy hike...don't believe it. Long story but no lighthouse sighting and WAAAY more than 0.75 miles

I loved the Botanical Garden.  I had a lot of fun taking photos.  You boys slept through all of it :)













Tuesday, August 9, 2016

Week 25





I can't believe how soon you boys will be here!  We are getting everything ready for you both.  We are still working in the nursery but it looks great!!!  We scheduled birthing classes, doctors appointments, photo shoots and much, much more.  
Your Uncle Michael came out to visit last week before your newest cousin is born.  It was tons of fun to show him Oregon.  Once you two arrive, we will figure out a way for you both to meet your 3 cousins.  
This week has been all about getting ready for your parent's last trip before you two make your appearances into this world.  







How far along? 24 weeks; 3 days! 


Materiny clothes? Always :) 

Stretch marks? Some minor ones appearing

Sleep? Sleeping seems to be getting harder. Mainly getting comfortable and not having heartburn is getting harder. 

Best moment this week? Spending time watching you two on ultrasound

Have you told Family and Friends? Everyone is extremely excited!  They cannot wait to meet you both. 


Movement? Perpetually.  Nothing seems to slow you two down

Food cravings? Pickles for every meal.  Also I am HUUUNGRY!!!

Anything making you sick? This week I started to notice smells bothering me.

Have you started to show yet? Umm...yes!

Gender prediction? We can't wait to meet you boys!


Labor Signs? None so far


Belly Button in or out? In.

Wedding rings on or off? On and fits great!


Happy or Moody most of the time? The not sleeping is increasing the crabby :)




Weekly Wisdom? This piece of advice came back to bite your father this week....
Milestones? The nursery is almost ready for you boys. Right now it is very quiet....I'm guessing you boys will fix that issue quickly.  




24 weeks pregnant:
I never got a chance to get a photo with the 3 of us in it....








Sunday, July 24, 2016

Week 22

We have been relaxing the last few weeks.   We started organizing and setting up some furniture for your nursery.  It has been so fun.  The nursery is my favorite spot to sit and talk to you two.  We cannot wait to meet you!


How far along?  22 weeks; 6 days! 

Materiny clothes? Yes! and now maternity scrubs for work.  You two got too big for normal scrubs. 

Stretch marks? None so far

Sleep? I'm fighting heartburn to sleep but once I get there I generally sleep well. 

Best moment this week? Watching you two move my belly...kind of an alien like feeling. 



Have you told Family and Friends?  Everyone is excited about our growing family. 


Movement? Tons!  

Food cravings?  Pickles. I get the pregnant lady special (I'd like 3-4 extra pickles with that please)

Anything making you sick? Nope!

Have you started to show yet? YES!




Ally ignoring that you both were kicking her for sitting on Mom's lap.  



Gender? Twin boys.  We can't wait to meet you two!


Labor Signs? Nope. Phew!

Belly Button in or out? In-ish

Wedding rings on or off? On!


Happy or Moody most of the time? Still pretty happy



Weekly Wisdom? 




Milestones? Seeing you move on the outside

Tuesday, July 5, 2016

Week 20

Your Grandma came out to visit this week!  We did not visit any Oregon landmarks....it was just a baby party! We had the Love's (Dan, Jacq, Juliana, Samuel, Jerry and Juanita) out for the 4th of July! Your dad made ribs on his grill (the second you can eat adult real food you will discover he is a grill master).  We went shopping for tons of baby decor and maternity clothes.  Dan and Jacq also gave us some new supplies like a pack and play and baby swing!  You two will love them!


How far along?  20 weeks; 3 days! 



Materiny clothes? I love shopping! So lots of new maternity clothing. I will have to do a blog post on the Stitch Fix maternity clothing that I have kept throughout the boxes.  

Stretch marks? None so far

Sleep? Finally seem to have beaten this cough (fingers and toes crossed)

Best moment this week? Hanging out with Grandma. She really wants to feel you two move!



Have you told Family and Friends?  Everyone is excited about our growing family. 


Movement? Tons!  Twins sure equals a lot of kicking!

Food cravings?   Ribs!

Anything making you sick? Nope!

Have you started to show yet? YES!



Sneak Peak of your room!

Under the Sea










Gender? Twin boys.  Now to finalize names....


Labor Signs? Nope. Phew!


Belly Button in or out? In.

Wedding rings on or off? On!


Happy or Moody most of the time? I am starting to feel big and getting some pain but I am so excited to meet you both!



Weekly Wisdom? 





Milestones? Getting to spend time with your Grandma!